First off, let’s make this clear: I don’t want a debate over premarital sex, or natural vs other forms of birth control. This post is not about morality or religious views, nor is it about whether or not I should start having children because of my age. Second, I’m not a doctor so the rest of this post will be based heavily on personal experience.
With that out of the way, let’s talk about Intra-Uterine Devices or IUDs.
I am in my late 20’s, in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful person, but we both agreed that we have no immediate plans for marriage and children. Because priorities. With some research, a lot of questions answered by doctor friends and a bit of a medical background (I have a Nursing degree), I made the choice to get an IUD last April.
IUDs have been around for years and years, but in this very conservative country that I live in, it’s a little talked about birth control option. In my experience, it’s not something that you can ask from just any OB-GYN, especially in Pro-Life / anti-RH institutions. I could be wrong of course, but it took me a bit of research to find an OB GYN that offers IUDs without prejudice against my background of being unmarried and childless. Believe me when I say that I’ve had my fair share of judgy looks for actively and directly seeking birth control.
There is no scarcity of knowledge about this birth control option, since a lot of information is readily available on the internet, but there are just not a lot of personal experience from fellow Filipinas. I for one think real, personal experiences from peers is a huge help in deciding on major decisions such as this one. I actually got a gynecologist recommendation from a blogger too!
So here I am, writing about mine, just in case someone like me out there is considering getting one too.